Questioning Tommy Bartlett's Sexuality
Reading about Tommy Bartlett's radio fame in Time has me thinking...Specifically this part of the Monday, July 1, 1940, article:
Unorthodox in the extreme is Bartlett's method of gathering material for his programs. Every day promptly at 2:05 he whirls into the Chicago Home Arts Guild, an institution supported by national advertisers, to lunch and show 100-odd women the sponsors' 100-odd products. Tommie shouts "Hello, girls!" at the assembled matrons. Ten minutes later, after the girls are all in spasms at Tommie, who thinks nothing of rolling on the floor to get them giggling, WBBM technicians begin to record Meet the Missus. Twittering like sparrows, yanking nervously at their girdles, some of Tommie 's girls answer questions about their clothes, husbands, honeymoons, aspirations, frustrations, children, while the rest of them hoot and howl.Apparently, Bartlett was quite the man; earning 20 wedding proposals and the moniker "housewife’s pinup boy".
Not a bad looking man. And I can only assume that even as his hair whitened and his middle thickened, his wallet's growth from all the Wisconsin Dell's attractions only served to make him more attractive. If girls and matrons once "yanked nervously at their girdles" (and isn't that a delicious bit of vintage imagery!), I bet that once the girdle was banished, the smoothing of hair & skirts, the licking & biting of lips, and other signs of lusty interest continued.But Bartlett never married.
This would not interest me so if there weren't such a blank in the press about the man's private life. A legendary figure in the Midwest (and beyond), you'd think his exploits would be documented. Even here on the Internet, home of all things imbecilic & impolite, there is no tribute to the man, no home for all things private (let alone pervy) regarding Tommy Bartlett.
How could such a public man lead such a private life?
If he was a playboy bachelor, where are the celeb stalkings? There's no dirt on his wild youth, no dish on his radio hey-days, no smutty speculation on his incredibly wealthy years as a kitsch mogul. Where was the scandal of his will after his death? No rug-rats crawling out of the woodwork for a piece of that pie? And there's virtually no photographic evidence of his life.
Too damn quiet, if you ask me.
So I wonder, was this man gay?
Now I know you're going to accuse me of perpetuating stereotypes. Suggesting the maker of stacked water skier spectacles is anything but hetero certainly seems "typical" of a hetero. But honestly, where's the trail of his romantic life? Only a gay man living the life of such a large local legend would keep so secretive.
If you have any knowledge, news clippings, photos, anecdotal evidence, please spill it.I'm just dying to know.
This pondering post was the result of reading In Which I Try To Meet The Missus And End Up With Tommy Bartlett, which I may, at a later date, revisit here at SPS in regards to Meet The Missus.
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2 Comments:
Sure Tommy was gay. I worked for him at his water show in the late 60's and it was assumed by all of us that he was homosexual. As far as I know, it was never an issue at the show or in the local community where he appeared to be well liked and respected. He was always the soul of discretion, and I never heard of him making a pass at anyone. With the exception of an occasional young man he might travel with, he maintained a pretty low key personal lifestyle.
Tommy was a pretty remarkable guy, and I liked him regardless of the common assumption about his sexual orientation. In fact, he is probably responsible for my early acceptance of gays when that really wasn't the temper of the times for young, decidedly hetrosexual males.
For his sake, I wish he had been able to live in a time and place more tolerant of a gay lifestyle...
Thanks! I'm pleased to hear this -- not to be 'right' or to 'out' anyone, but to learn that his celeb status didn't mean he was raked over the coals. That's a very positive thing to hear.
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